Sunday, April 11, 2010

Life

I played the Game of Life with my two older daughters today: Olivia, age eight, and Anna, age almost-four.

Olivia was busy. She had to get a second car to fit all her kids. And she was a doctor, which I think was the highest paying salary in the deck. Still, she wanted to keep her money, so she chose the mobile home when it came to picking a house. She's a savvy kid. I have no doubt this game could mirror her life. (Except, maybe, the mobile home part.)

Anna, on the other hand, was playing this game with a three-year-old mentality. When choosing a career, she chose TEACHER because she wanted to be like Daddy. She turned down a higher paying job. She had a car full of kids. It was very important to her that the sexes of her children matched up so she could have a girl row and a boy row.

Most interesting, though, was that Anna wasn't bothered by the ups-and-downs of Life. She was the only one who kept landing on spaces where she had to pay up for this or that. She laid down $5000 for an LCD TV. She paid veterinary bills. And on a teacher's salary, it meant she came in last place when it came to counting up money. She couldn't afford a new house when she had the opportunity to buy one. I counseled her against taking out a loan.

Still, she was not bothered by any of it. When I gave her the option to switch careers (you get that option with this new version of Life), she said she was happy being a teacher like Daddy.

I hope I can go through real life with that same simple gratefulness. Being thankful I have enough money to pay for life's expenses. Not being wrapped up in how many one-hundred-thousand-dollar bills I can accumulate next to the board.

Anna was content with her condo and her car of children. I want to be like that, too.

4 comments:

  1. I love this message and I used to love that game, too. I need to buy it so I can play with my kiddos.
    ~ Wendy

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  2. What a sweet story, Amy. What does your husband teach?

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  3. Thanks, Wendy. Yes, it was my favorite game as a kid, too. I loved the getting married and having kids part. Lol!

    Krista, He teaches 9th & 10th grade science. :) He's the math/science person of the relationship.

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  4. okay, this post was for me. as i am consumed with finding and house and ride the roller coaster of what we can afford vs. what is out there. sweet anna, i'm taking my cues from you today!

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